Something is wrong with a situation that made you feel like this even after you left that country. I’m fairly certain that you are not alone.

While writing this, I remembered a couple from South Africa who were my neighbors in California. After visiting a nude beach, they felt that seeing naked bodies was neither sexy nor arousing. A sexy outfit was far more effective in stimulating desire.

Thanks for mentioning the importance of thought in all this and also the intrusive gaze. I appreciate your taking time to read this and to share your perspective.

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